Saya sebagai mahasiswi UNiSEL

Assalamualaikum.

Dah hampir 3 minggu saya hidup sebagai mahasiswi Unisel dan Alhamdulillah, saya gembira sepanjang 3 minggu ni. Saya gembira dengan bagaimana cara saya memulakan hidup saya di sini.

Pertamanya, saya gembira dengan Minggu Tekad Siswa (MTS).

Serius, minggu orientasi yang SANGAT SANGAT PENAT, sampai kaki saya sakit berhari hari lepas minggu orientasi ni. Tapi Alhamdulillah, saya sangat suka dengan semua fasilitator untuk minggu orientasi. Sepanjang 5 hari orientasi, I felt very well taken care of. Sepanjang 5 hari orientasi, saya betul betul rasa macam semua fasi ni kakak kakak dan abang abang saya.

Dan saya agak terkejut juga dengan penglibatan saya. Saya tidaklah terlalu aktif menyerlah dalam minggu orientasi, tapi saya berani menawarkan diri untuk bertanya soalan kepada panelis di hadapan orang ramaiketika sesi forum. Saya pun tak rasa nervous sangat bila abang Khairool (fasi) minta saya dan beberapa orang lain beri pendapat tentang forum tu. Dulu, jangankan bercakap depan orang ramai, nak tanya soalan dalam kelas pun saya tak berani. Mungkin sebab saya dah dilatih bercakap masa program Diploma dulu, tapi saya agak berbangga dengan penglibatan saya.

Keduanya, saya kagum dengan perbezaan persekitaran saya, dulu dan sekarang.

Dulu kat Kpmim, dress code rules agak ketat. Kalau nak keluar dari kolej cuma boleh pakai baju kurung. Pergi kelas kena pakai baju kurung. Jeans langsung tak dibenarkan pakai dalam kolej. Disebabkan peraturan peraturan yang macam ni lah saya tak rasa sangat berbeza, walaupun kebanyakan students datang dari background yang sangat urban berbanding saya. 

Bila di Unisel, dress code rules agak fleksibel. Kami diberi lebih kebebasan untuk pakai apa saja termasuk jeans, asalkan tak keterlaluan. Jadi persekitaran saya diberi lebih warna, sebab setiap orang berpakaian mengikut personaliti diri sendiri. Saya pun dapatlah kenal masyarakat yang lebih pelbagai. Tapi Alhamdulillah, setakat ni belum ada sesiapa yang berlaku sombong pada orang macam saya, dan setakat ni saya suka pada kebanyakan orang, jadi saya rasa lebih selesa mengekspresikan diri sendiri.

Ketiganya, saya suka pada semua lecturer yang mengajar saya.

Saya suka semua lecturer saya yang berbeza beza, tapi setiap lecturer ada sesuatu yang membuatkan saya kagum dengan mereka. Madam Azian dengan ketegasannya dalam memastikan kami terdidik di Unisel (saya terhibur dengan lecture dia), Madam Adlene dengan kelancarannya berkata-kata (serius, Madam Adlene sangat resembles pada Madam Munirah saya di KPM), Madam Uzaimah dengan kesediaannya mendengar cerita kami, Mr. Shahid dengan pengetahuan amnya yang luas, Mr Faizal dengan kesanggupannya memastikan kami belajar dalam keadaan yang selesa, dan Mr Faizul yang kelakar dan sporting dalam kelas.

Saya boleh belajar sesuatu dari setiap lecturer yang mengajar saya, dan Alhamdulillah, sejak bermulanya hidup saya sebagai mahasiswi Unisel, saya masih bersih daripada mengumpat dan mengata lecturer.

Keempatnya, PSSCM Unisel!

Masa saya mula mula daftar, saya ingatkan PSSCM cuma ada kat kampus utama Unisel. Saya agak kecewa sebab kalau boleh saya nak aktif PSSCM sepanjang belajar kat Unisel ni, tapi kalau persatuan tak ada, macam mana saya nak aktif. So saya macam agak putus asa jugak la sampai la satu hari, secara kebetulan saya terjumpa booth PSSCM kat kafe Unisel.

And I was like, WOOHOOOO! Straight away, saya daftar kat PSSCM Unisel sebagai ahli. Saya dah pun hadiri kelas pertama saya di Unisel ni, dan setakat ni, saya gembira di PSSCM Unisel. Saya rasa homely, mungkin sebab saya dah pun jatuh sayang pada PSSCM masa saya kat kelas cawangan Kuantan dulu, jadi bila saya jumpa PSSCM kat sini, saya rasa macam berjumpa dengan keluarga saya semula. Dan saya rasa, orang orang PSSCM kat Unisel lebih kurang je dengan PSSCM kat Kuantan. Mungkin sebab kami dididik oleh satu sistem yang sama, jadi ada beberapa nilai dan prinsip yang kami pegang adalah serupa :)

Saya pun mula terlibat sikit sikit dengan aktiviti persatuan lain, contohnya Persatuan Pembangunan Insan. Saya harap aktiviti persatuan saya dan kecemerlangan akademik saya berjalan seiring :)

Permulaan yang baik Alhamdulillah. Perjalanan yang bakal baik InsyaAllah. Semoga moga membuahkan hasil yang baik InsyaAllah.

Sister's wedding & anxious

Assalamualaikum.

First of all, congratulations kaktam, now that you are married! I felt happy to be her bridesmaid, tapi most of the times I screwed things up. Takpelah, first time jadi bridesmaid pun.

Penat jangan cakap, but I'm happy to be one of the people that worked for this wedding. Seeing my sister's and abang tam's happy face, my sweats are totally worth it.

Selesai tentang wedding.

Second of all, 24 Ogos ni berkemungkinan besar saya akan mula masuk belajar kat sebuah universiti swasta. Saya tersangatlah risau dan tak senang duduk, considering many things are undone due to the kenduri, and how can I survive well sebab ini first time saya duduk jauh dari keluarga saya.

Sekarang mungkin saya baru sedar, yang saya belum pernah betul betul berdikari.
Sebab selama ni saya hidup dalam zon yang selesa. Sentiasa ada orang yang boleh membantu kalau saya susah. Tapi now that I'm going to live far away, saya sentiasa risau macam mana saya nak berdikari, di tempat yang saya tak kenal.

Perkara kedua yang saya risaukan; masalah kewangan.
Saya pilih untuk masuk belajar di universiti swasta atas sebab saya nampak peluang saya bakal saya dapat kalau saya masuk belajar di situ.
Untuk tampung kos belajar, saya dah pun memohon dana pada badan-badan yang menawarkan kemudahan tu. Up to this date, saya belum dapat jawapan dari badan-badan tu, despite of me ringing them countless time. Mohon doakan saya dapat respon yang baik dalam minggu ni.

Ahh. I'm so anxious that I need to talk to someone right now.

Meteor Shower

Tonight is the night of meteor shower.

But I've missed this golden miracle.

Therefore, I'm sad.

Later, I kissed my niece's cheek, who is sleeping soundly.

Then I realized, I have another miracle right next to me.

Dear You

How are you? It has been 5 years since our thing.

I can see you're getting near to the dream that you always told me then. How good your relationship is with your family and friends. You probably even have someone by your side now. It's good to see how lively your life now. Truthfully, I love seeing you busy doing things you've always liked. And I assume, deep inside, you've changed a lot, more than I can imagine. Although it's a little bit sad, I'm happy to see you're living the best way possible. At least, that's what I see.

On the other hand, I'm not doing so well. I failed my IPMA application, and now I failed my UPU application. I'm trying to reapply now, hoping that my second application will be able to make it.

I've changed a lot, too. My English is getting good, and now I'm involved in martial arts. Kinda switching our roles slowly, haha. Most of the times, I'm not very pleased with myself. But that's a long, seasoned issue, I don't want to talk about that.

It has been 5 years. I can put my mind off of you now. I'm into my daily routine nowadays. It sounds boring, though, since most of the times I'll just stay at home and help my mum doing the household. It's like training to be a full time housewife, haha. But a full time housewife can be so busy too, I tell you. I don't feel very much effective, but I don't hate this kinda routine. I'm happy to contribute to my family in the way that I could.

Still, this kinda lifestyle leaves me some space to think. Well, to daydream to be specific. I daydream about many things. Like, how is my house gonna be when I get married. How can I decorate my home. What kind of room will my kids have. Sometimes, I would think about you. I would think about what you think of me now. What would have happened if things went differently. If we never met. Or if we chose to stay. Should that happens, I'd surely be a very different person than who I am today.

It has been 5 years. During these years, I've met new people, seen new possibilities, even putting my eyes on some people. Perhaps, I should wait a little bit longer. For these past years, the only experience I know is you. The real one. It doesn't hold me back, though. I'm open to new experiences ;)

Sometimes, I feel like talking. Telling you what I went through, how I feel, what I hope, etc etc. Sometimes, I feel like listening. Listen to what you went through, how you feel, what you hope, etc etc. But you know, the right of talking and listening is only granted to the chosen people. Judging from me never had that opportunity, I assume that you're gone, and I should not wish more.

You could've said, "You can contact me anytime you want." to me. But you know, I do have ego, as a person. I would've contact you to say hi and such, but to do the talking and listening, I probably need some lines that are more assuring.

But, I'm just whining, you know. Maybe I'm affected with Cory-Lea story, maybe tonight is one of the nights that I would think of you randomly, I don't know. Now that I just happen to think a bit about you, I just wanna let it out, knowing that it won't reach you.

You've changed a lot. I've changed a lot. I don't put much hope on anything big. Just, even after all these years, and all other years coming up, there will always be a tiny, little space in you and I, for both of us.

See you again.
Sincerely,
Me.

Cory and Lea

It feels personal about Cory's death.

Saya bukan peminat Glee, pun bukan peminat Cory, tapi saya kadang kadang tertengok juga tv show tu, so recognize la jugak muka Cory dan Lea ni.

So bila saya tertengok dalam berita yang Cory ditemui mati, saya agak terkejut la juga. Saya pun tengok tengoklah response orang ramai dengan berita ni.

It saddens me. The story about Lea and Cory, the feelings of his fans and family, they are just... heartbreaking.

Maybe it's true, "tell them you love them today, because they can disappear tomorrow."

p/s: I feel like meeting again...

Cory and Lea. Be strong, Lea.

Be strong, me.

Synesthesia

Have you ever heard about synesthesia?

2 malam yang lepas masa saya tengah surf internet, saya tiba tiba terfikir tentang satu fenomena yang sejak dari kecik saya ada. So saya search la fenomena tu.

Turns out it is synesthesia.

Saya pun tak pasti sangat sebab saya tak pernah kena tested dengan pakar psikologi sebenar. Saya cuma pernah buat test synesthesia online, dan jugak pembacaan umum. Tapi setakat yang saya baca, adalah dalam 60% saya percaya yang saya adalah synesthetic.

Synesthesia yang saya alami adalah number-gender. Letters dengan numbers (single digit) yang ada, saya mesti kaitkan dengan jantina. Sometimes, semua tu ada personaliti sekali, tapi saya tak lah gambarkan personaliti diorang tu secara vivid. Tapi ada lah personaliti tu.

Antara contoh contoh:

0 - male, personality unsure, color white
1 - female, personality normal, color unsure
2 - male, free-spirited boy, and I always associate this number with striking red
3 - female, personality unsure, color is probably orange-ish
4 - female, personality quite serene, soft blue
5 - male, personality gentle, color orange-ish
6 - male, personality - the wise old man, color greenish
7 - female, personality furious, striking orange
8 - female, personality very serene, soft blue
9 - female, personality lady-like, color unsure
10 - male (satu satunya nombor dua digit yang saya dapat tengok jantinanya), the number which personality is unknown but this number is powerful, most like the leader/the king of the numbers mentioned.

Itu untuk nombor. Untuk bulan bulan pun ada jugak jantinanya.

January - female
February - Can be both, but it is more to male
March - female
April - female
May - Can be both, but it is more to female
June - Male
July - female
August - female
September - female
October - male
November - powerful female
December - gentle male

And the letters... the list goes on.

Semua perception ni constant, dari kecik sampai besar saya fikir macam ni.

Saya buat 3 ujian synesthesia dari semua site ni;

http://www.synesthesiatest.org (2)
http://synesthete.org (1)

daripada 3 test tu, 2 ujian menunjukkan saya positif synesthete. Test dari synesthete.org tu, range dia macam ni; <1, then one definitely a synesthete. Keputusan saya, saya dapat 1.03, close to the range. Ujian accuracy saya, saya dapat 77.78%, while the range untuk synesthete is above 85%, close jugak kan? Ujian jugak menunjukkan saya seorang associator (saya cuma tahu setiap nombor ada warna, tapi saya tak betul betul nampak warna tu).

With all these being said.... Am I normal?

IELTS result

Lepas saya gagal IPMA tu, saya dapat berita ni.

Haha, Alhamdulillah.

Macam tak patut je kan gembira sakan dengan band 7 untuk IELTS. Band 7 tu macam cukup syarat je. Lainlah kalau saya dapat band 8.5, boleh celebrate ala kadar.

Tapi saya expect lagi rendah sebab masa test IELTS tu saya buat entah apa apa. Nak nak lagi time speaking. Entah apa je la yang saya mengarut kat examiner tu (Mrs. Greenhill nama dia kalau saya tak salah). Masa writing pun nervous sebab masa macam tak cukup. Tapi alhamdulillah, rezeki saya dapat band 7.

InsyaAllah, peluang tetap ada :)

Program Cemerlang IPMA

.... Saya fail.

Enough said.

Fenomena apekah?

Tadi saya mengalami satu fenomena, masa saya nak tidur petang.

Contohnya:

Few minutes lepas saya tutup mata, tiba tiba saya lost control pada diri sendiri. Like, saya masih sedar, tapi susah nak buka mata, gerak tangan dan kaki. Tapi saya cuba gerak jugak, just to make sure yang saya boleh bergerak lagi. Cuma susahlah, ibaratnya macam angkat tong gas penuh everytime nak gerakkan badan dan kaki.

Then, during the time yang saya susah nak bukak mata tu, saya macam berhalusinasi. Macam ternampak nampak ada 3 orang perempuan yang tengah tengok saya, padahal saya tengah sorang sorang dalam bilik. Selain tu, saya pun berhalusinasi yang ada lelaki menjerit dekat dengan saya, macam orang terlibat dalam accident kereta.

Lepas berjaya bangun, mata saya rasa perit, hati saya berdegup lebih kuat, dan saya rasa penat sebab saya struggle untuk control badan saya masa saya susah bukak mata tu.

Macam mistik je bunyinya, tapi mesti ada penjelasan yang logik untuk fenomena ni.

Fenomena apa ni ye?

Werewolf Boy

Baru baru ni saya search random korean movies kat internet. This movie caught my eyes because its lead actor and actress are Song Joong Ki and Park Bo Young. Saya bukan peminat dua orang pelakon ni, tapi since both pernah terlibat dengan Running Man, dan sinopsis filem ni pun macam genre yang saya suka, jadi saya decide untuk tonton filem ni.

Tapi saya tak pernah tonton filem ni sampai habis.

Bukan sebab saya tak suka. Tapi sebab saya tau ending filem ni bukan ending yang gembira. Dah boleh agak diorang tak bersama pun. So, instead of tonton ending filem ni, saya search untuk spoiler, dan akhirnya terjumpa di sini.

Sedih okk. I love this kind of bittersweet movies. Cerita macam ni sangattlah berpotensi untuk buat saya menangis.

:'(

Beautiful

 "The more I look around, the more I hope that you're all I should be looking for."

21 years old.

Assalamualaikum.

Dah 3 hari saya menjejak ke umur 21. Alhamdulillah.

Semoga kedewasaan saya bergerak seiring dengan pertambahan umur saya.

Terima kasih atas ucapan ucapan dan hadiah yang saya terima.

Terima kasih juga atas nikmat dan ujian yang saya tempuh sepanjang 21 tahun saya hidup.

Dear life,

Let's go!

p/s: Baru je umur saya naik 21, soalan soalan 'tu' dah naik dah. Aishh.

Last Day of Internship

Assalamualaikum.

Alhamdulillah, hari ni last day saya praktikal kat UMP. Sepanjang saya praktikal kat sini, insyaAllah banyak pengalaman saya kutip.

Pengalaman kena marah dengan bos.
Pengalaman kena sindir dengan colleagues.

Pengalaman jadi fasilitator camp.
Pengalaman jadi MC untuk majlis penutup yang informal.
Pengalaman terlibat secara minor untuk majlis yang agak grand.

Semuanya pengalaman yang menyeronokkan, dan pengalaman yang mengajar saya macam macam perkara.

Jadi tak ada alasan untuk saya tak berterima kasih atas semua yang saya dapat ni.
Bersyukur pada Allah Taala sebab lorongkan saya pilih untuk praktikal kat UMP.
Berterima kasih pada supervisor, both academic and industrial atas tunjuk ajar yang sangaat berharga.
Berterima kasih pada staf yang jadi colleagues saya selama 3 bulan, for all their kindness and help.
Berterima kasih juga pada students yang banyak membantu saya selama 3 bulan kat sini, directly and indirectly.

Tak kisahlah kalau tempat praktikal saya tak glamour pun.
Saya tak kisah tak dapat jumpa artis.
Saya tak kisah tak bekerja dengan media.
Saya tak kisah tak bekerja dikelilingi buku-buku yang best.

Saya gembira di UMP.

Terima kasih, warga UMP. May Allah bless all of us.

Me to You, You to Me

The pictures of our innocent days are never regretted.

p/s: Happy belated anniversary.

Yurika/Minda

Today is my best friend's birthday, Yurika Figment a.ka minda.

Ingat nak letak gambar dia, but seriously, despite of befriending her for 8 years, I didn't have any single picture of her.

Dia memang macam tu. Tak suka publisiti. Kat FB dia pun rasanya satu je gambar yang ada muka dia. Itu pun group picture, ambik gambar dengan class mates dia time high school dulu. Gambar dengan kitorang? Harammm. Selalu avoid bila kitorang nak snap gambar sekali.

Tapi tak kecil hati pun. I don't need pictures to remember her. Muka dia dah printed dalam otak, nak buang pun tak boleh.

Still, I love her so very much. She's very different, which it makes her unique and speacial, and walaupun minat kami sekarang dah agak berbeza, but she remains as one of my favorite people.

Happy birthday Minda. I love you.

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Syorga dunia kembali. Hooo yeahhhhhh!

Kim Jong Kook

Buah hati baru. Kim Jong Kook.

Dah dah. Tolong jangan pengaruhi saya minat K-pop lebih dari ini!

Conquering fear

I'm not a brave person.
There are too much things that I am afraid of.

I don't wish to be fearless.
I wish for strength to conquer the fear every time I'm scared.

p/s: tak kisahlah test asas silat ni lulus ke tak. Yang penting saya buat sungguh-sungguh. After all rezeki milik Allah, usaha atas saya. Lulus atau gagal, dua dua ada hikmahnya.

Mood of the Days

UMP English Camp Riverside Janda Baik (Update)

Assalamualaikum!

So baru-baru ni saya join English Camp kat Riverside Janda Baik, organized by Kelab Intelligentsia kat UMP. Saya join as facilitator.

Anyhoo, saya suka join camp tu sebab that is the first time saya jadi faci. So perasaan dia agak lainlah. Kat camp tu semua participants panggil faci Kak atau Abang, regardless of diorang lebih tua atau muda. So rasa seronok la jugak sebab rasa macam dapat adik yang ramai je, padahal semua lebih kurang je. Haha. Dan juga, since saya sangat sangat la jarang dapat mandi sungai, so bila ada peluang mandi sungai ni, haha grab la habis habisan. Saya mandi sungai dua kali kot.

Nasib baik bawak baju extra (sepasang t-shirt and track tak sempat berpakai pun kat camp), so tak ada masalah la nak membazir baju.

And, walaupun saya seorang faci, tapi tak banyak pun saya tolong untuk preparation. All done by facis yang lebih senior. Saya cuma mengikut arahan.

Gratitude expression time!

Program Director (Dyla), Program Advisor (K. Liana), and Chief of Facilitators (Haziq), saya sangat berterima kasih pada diorang sebab bagi peluang pada saya yang sebagai orang baru ni untuk jadi faci. Terutamanya K. Liana, kalau akak ni tak ajak saya jadi faci, tak merasa saya join camp ni.

Semua facilitators, diorang sangat helpful dan friendly. Asalnya saya rasa awkward untuk join camp ni, tapi since diorang ada, rasa macam sebahagian dari diorang pulak. Padahal saya orang luar. Especially Afif, faci yang handle group 2 sekali dengan saya. Thank you for all the help, walaupun saya selalu silap explain rules la apa la. Kesabaran anda amat dihargai : )

Okey, let the pics do the talking.

Ketua Fasi, Haziq

Pengarah Program, Dyla

Penasihat Program, K. Liana

My partner in crime, Afif

The sungai. Sejuk gilaaaa

Participants tengah buat aktiviti

Bye bye.... : )

 Walaupun pada awalnya, macam tak berapa ada mood nak join this camp, tapi at last, I really miss these guys!

Don't stop being awesome guys, this world is lonelier without any single of you.

p.s: And seriously, all the facilitators are good looking okehh. Including me la hihi.

Credit pictures Iqbal Annam Zainal and Zat Effi

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Update gambar

The facis. Tapi tak semua ada.

Group 2

Walaupun kenal dan sempat bersama cuma untuk 3 hari, saya dah sangat rindu pada mereka mereka :'(

Distance

"Do you feel the way I do, right now?"

Hak Bertanya

Penat penat penat penat.

Jangan halang hak kami untuk bertanya.

Biarpun ketika kami salah.

Dear SW1M president, shame on you.

And dear ms. Bavani,

you sure have my full respect.

Avoiding

There are times when you just want to avoid the world.

Get yourself away from everything and just don't care what will happen.

People who walk around you, whether they notice you or not.

You just don't care about that.

Maybe after all, you don't need anything much, except a good news and a happy story.

Bahasa emosi

Bahasa emosi.

Memang bukan bahasa lidah saya.

Ia bahasa hati.

Jaga diri tu wajib

Read a note on Facebook, it's a worth sharing.

Remember these tips (men and women, doesn't matter) when you encounter someone harmful:

1] Rapist looks for easiest hairstyle to grab, like ponytail or just long hair.

2] They prefer women whose clothing can be removed quickly.

3] They also look for women who busy doing things because they are likely off their guard.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman

and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to

worry about getting caught.

8] Fight them back. It will discourage these rapists to harm you more, as you're being a time-consuming and 

hard victim.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be 

used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Small items like keys to be weapons are less recommended because you need to be close to them

 to be able to use the weapon.


POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If a stranger follows you, look them in the face and ask

them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk. Now

that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up,

you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of

you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to

said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would

not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY

target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of

it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER

SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can

do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from

behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and

armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. 

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. You might think that you'll anger the guy and

make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our

instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of

trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers

and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing

down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using

much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked

audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of

your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any

odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel

little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really

was trouble.



FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your

body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from

you.... chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or

purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN

THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back

tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like

crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has

saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating,

working, etc., and just sit

(doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The

predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for

him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell

you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or

parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be

hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the

passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE

RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you park your car next to a big van, enter your car from the

passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling

them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their

cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and

the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest

your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a

guard/policeman to walk you back out. 

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs.

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS

RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times;

And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may

get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a

good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies

of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often

asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when

he abducted his next victim.

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Nota ni copy pasted dari Facebook so malas nak edit lebih lebih. Asalkan boleh baca. Moga ada manfaat.

Teringat satu ayat yang selalu saya dengar dalam silat,

"Belajar silat tak wajib tapi jaga diri tu wajib."

Ayat yang abang saya selalu bagi,

"Haa sebab tu awak belajar silat."

p/s: Rindu ah.

Tahun Baru

Assalamualaikum.

Walaupun dah sampai hari ketiga, tapi still... Selamat tahun baru!

This is how I spent my new year's eve. With these awesome people.

Semoga tahun ni adalah tahun yang baik untuk semua. Amin.

Dear heart, sila jadi lebih kuat tahun ni. Jangan rapuh sangat, jangan senang sangat berkecai, jangan cepat sangat jatuh. Dear me, sila selalu tabah dan gembira.